I help couples create more loving and intimate relationships, Where BOTH partners have room to truly thrive.
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I help couples create more loving and intimate relationships, Where BOTH partners have room to truly thrive.
Join my weekly “Monday Minute” newsletter for tips, ideas and special offers.
Marriage is challenging. There’s no two ways about it. Every relationship will experience conflict. The good news is, the amount of conflict a couple has isn’t the problem.
The real difference between happy couples and those who struggle is their ability to repair after conflict.
I’m guessing you’ve heard the phrase, “strong fences make good neighbors.”
You wouldn’t want your house to have a front door with no latch.
You might be surprised that the same is true for strong marriages. Some people think that boundaries will keep you separated, but the exact opposite is true; healthy boundaries are what helps make the marriage safe and strong.
Learn How to Set Unbreakable Boundaries!
Imagine your relationship is like a house. The house you moved into at the beginning of your marriage felt perfect, but it may not meet your needs now, as your family has grown or your needs and desires have changed.
It’s the same with marriage! What felt perfect in the beginning may not be working for you anymore.
It doesn’t mean there is something wrong with your marriage.
It simply means that you lack the skills needed to remodel your relationship so it meets your current needs.
You can learn these skills! That’s where I come in.
When we work together, you’ll learn how to:
- Communicate more effectively — have more effective, fulfilling conversations
- Learn hot manage yourself, rather than trying to manage each other
- Understand the role of childhood experiences in each other’s reactions and learn to work with them
- Learn what is keeping you from being honest and intimate with each other and gain the skills to get unstuck from those old habits
- Create and keep healthy boundaries, so you both can feel safe an connected
- Have more kindness and compassion in the marriage and the entire family
- Be able to model a healthy relationship for your children and break generation patterns
Is your “relationship house” in need of a little remodeling?
Crafted Transformations
I truly love working with Andelin! She is so natural and comfortable in our sessions that you automatically feel that she is trustworthy. You can feel she genuinely wants to help you find peace in all aspects of your life. I always leave our sessions with a clearer mind and the confidence to live my life how I truly want.
– Heidi N.
Having a coach is something unique and so important! I feel like I have a good amount of knowledge on the topic of mental health and I have a keen sense of self-awareness and of my issues, and even then, it’s so helpful to talk through issues in this meaningful way. Our thoughts are what causes us so much suffering and pain and it takes some work to reprogram them when necessary. I love this method because it is freeing to know that I can change my thought process to create the life I want, and to show up as the person I want to be. Andelin is kind, patient and helpful!
– Christine P.
Working with Andelin helped me grow in many personal areas. I was able to learn practical skills to enhance different areas of my life. She challenged some of my thoughts and behaviors directly in a nonjudgmental way, and opened my eyes to some of my thinking errors that led to behaviors that didn’t serve me. I appreciate her professionalism and gentleness while helping me through some very difficult times. She made my life better. Thank you.
– Jen W.
Hi, I’m Andelin.
I’m a wife, a mom to 6 boys, a Musician, co-host (with my husband) of “The Marriage Bites! Podcast” and relationship expert.
You love your spouse, but you can’t seem to get along. And you can’t figure out why. I see you! I know you because I was exactly where you are.
I remember the day I looked at my husband and knew our marriage was in trouble. I didn’t feel seen. We weren’t communicating our needs. I didn’t feel appreciated or respected. I felt like I was just a maid, a doormat, someone to pickup everyone else’s slack.
However, I couldn’t bear the thought of my marriage ending, either. So I dove into everything I could bet my hands on — books, podcasts, courses, etc. My life and my marriage have completely transformed!
It doesn’t mean we don’t have struggles or conflict anymore.
It means that when we have conflict or come up against challenges, we know how to handle it without hurting each other.
This has made all the difference!
I want to help you along your journey of personal and relationship transformation. I can teach you how to set healthy boundaries, communicate with more honesty and openness, and show you the patterns that are keeping your relationship stick. I can help you make changes that last. We can go through your entire relationship house, room by room, to figure out what is working well, and what needs to be updated.
Are you ready to move your relationship forward?
